Huwebes, Disyembre 6, 2012

Finally, I'M ENGAGED! ♥


Hello Readers!


Hoolah! I am very happy to pronounce that I am officially engaged to my ex-boyfriend and now my fiancé, GARY GALLOGO.

Now, I am sharing to you this joyful chapter of my life.

This year, Gary and I were already on the stage of talking about settling down, about finally be ‘together forever’, about getting married! Well, a proposal is just out of the picture (Oh! that was what I have thought). ‘Cause… Gary proposed to me in the crack of dawn of November 29, two days before their schedule of “Pamamanhikan”.



I was really in delight and at the same time, tense few weeks before our engagement. I really had mixed feelings. I keep on asking, what will happen on an Engagement party? What to wear? Who are the invitees? And so on. I guess any girl would feel the same way I did when you are real soon come into the point of getting engaged! Gary, on the other hand, was full of excitement, and also so tense. Hahaha! The feeling was really mutual.

November 29, 2012 when his father and grandmother arrived in CDO from their hometown in Dinagat Islands. Gary then texted me about it, I was then shaking and compelling this thought to sink into my nerves: “THIS IS IT, BEVELYN!”

So, here comes the day I have waited, that eventually the man of my dreams together with his family would finally ask for my hands from my parents and family. And, I swear I was the happiest alive!

Indeed, we have welcomed DECEMBER with a BANG!!!

DECEMBER 1, 2012 is the day. I was really floating the whole day. I was really excited as I woke up in the morning until the party at 6 o’clock in the evening. I was like feeling nervous, uneasy, excited, happy… and all those incredible feelings on Earth. LOL.





BUT, you know, all of those mixed feelings were all vanished the moment we have arrived in the area (at Buffalo Resto Grill, Velez St., CDO). His family seemed to be so happy to see me and my family. I was amazed by their warmed welcome. Then, one of his Aunt cracks a joke, like when I did the “Mano” she told me “Iganid jud ha.” Asking me to do the Mano to everyone, and Hmmm… I wasn’t ashamed anymore.



In there to represent Gary’s family were Papa Alan, Lola Ining, Mama Aping, Mama Carmen, and Cousins: Ate Cha, Ate Lalaine, Ahmad, and lovely niece Lehyan. Together with me was my Mama Yeng, Aunts: Nanette, Evangeline, Jijie, Chalyn, Josie, my Bestfriend KC, and alooooooot of cousins!





At exactly 6:45 in the evening, the PAMALAYI thing was started. Gary’s dad, Papa Alan, did the traditional dialogue, that they were there for a reason and that reason was asking my hand, His Son’s girlfriend, for a marriage.

I cannot forget this statement of Papa Alan, “Dili sayon ni ilang naagian pag-Sendong. Pila ka-tulay ang giagian ug kada-tunga nila, sila ra gihapon duha ang nag-uban. Dili lalim maanod ka sa baha nga nagsapupo ug uyab. Karon, gusto naman sila mag-Till death do as part. Mao’ng suportahan gyud ni nato.”  Hahaha! The whole time Papa Alan was talking about this, everyone is laughing and of teary-eyes.  Certainly because everyone thought that we are really meant for each other. And, ofcourse, after Sendong I really have realized that I have already found the right one, the man that would save me all over again and again, the man I will share my forever with.

Spread the Love!
♥ 


Bevs

Martes, Nobyembre 20, 2012

MY SENDONG STORY


Hello Readers!

Spare me this moment. I just wanted to share my terrible experience during Sendong and the awful feelings I still have until this time.

December 16 and 17 of last year when Typhoon Sendong came to kill thousands of people, destroyed and washed out thousands of houses, and left nothing but horrible memories to all its victims.

December 16, 2011, Friday, when I am feeling I will be having a fever added with the rainy and windy day in Cagayan de Oro. I suffered from a body malaise. It seems that my body was really in sentiment that something bad will going to happen.

I went home from the office with a heavy heart. On our way home, we have witnessed, together with my officemates, the flooding of the streets and the relentless wind blow. I have even posted a status on Facebook, “Flood is everywhere. Please go away, Sendong! Be safe everyone!” That was my last Facebook status update.

My mom fetched me with an umbrella. Still, with my heavy heart, I arrived home very sickly. I look out to everyone in the house. My mom told Gary and I that we are not going to sleep until the wind and rain stop. She told us that we will gonna watched out and be updated with the level of water of the Cagayan de Oro river which is just meters away from our home. We turned on the TV and watched a DVD copy of ‘No Other Woman’ just to be entertained while gazing up the water level every now and then.

About 10 to 11 o’clock in the evening when the electric current was turning on and off. I was anxious about how we are going to see what’s happening around when all we see is darkness and all we feel is the wind blowing harder!!! What makes me more anxious was when our neighbor screamed that everyone should be in full alert because the water level of the river was arising so fast and in any moment it’ll overflow! You know, everyone in our place were all scared every time the river will overflow as it gives an impression of a disaster!!!

After knowing about it, we then packed-up all the things in the ground floor and keep safe everything to the second floor very very quickly. Hurriedly, I awaken my Grandma, my father, and other family members who fall asleep. I asked them to get up as quick as they can and then prepare themselves for we need to evacuate to my Aunts house which I thought a safer place.  When we are still packing up, we see the water begins to roll over the floor hastily. We all get alarmed! Everyone is shouting, screaming, and crying. It took us about 30 minutes to transfer all important things to the second floor and hurriedly left the house with water level on our waists.

If you are wondering why I thought my Aunts house was a safer place. Here are the reasons: 1) My Aunt’s house was situated in an elevated area. For normal overflowing of the river, the water never gets there. Therefore, during Sendong we experienced an abnormal overflowing of the river and nothing but a tremendous flood! 2) My Aunt’s house was really design for houses situated in a prone to flooding areas. It was built with a strong foundation and has a second floor also, and, it was just meters away from ours. Thus, I have thought that panic moment t’was the perfect place for all of us to stay in.

But Oh my GOD! I WAS TOTALLY WRONG!!! L The water unexpectedly reached my Aunt’s house. I was sitting at the second floor near the stairs; I saw how the water bumped the walls and stairs. It tripled my fear and anxiety.

I do not know what was the exact time because of too much anxiety, but I guess that was about 1’oclock in the morning of December 17, 2011 when the water was about to reach the second floor where all of us dwell. My Aunt asked me to call for a rescue. With my absence of mind, I dialed my cousin Cherry’s number and talked to her with my crying voice that we are in need of a rescuer! That the water already reaches the second floor and that we have nowhere to go. I guess that was the saddest conversation I ever had in my whole life… begging for an impossible help… really IMPOSSIBLE! For all we will need on that very moment was… God’s mercy.

I suddenly saw Gary with my other cousins destroying some part of the ceiling. It gives us a little hope knowing we still have somewhere to go. I saw my grandma kneeling in one of the rooms praying… humbly asking for God’s mercy… crying… My heart is melting. Melting as I was seeing my little cousins and grandma in this kind of disaster. I am helping them out with all the best that I can, like getting them to the ceiling first. In the house, we have a total of 5 kids. 1, 3, 7, 8, and 9 years old. I am wondering how these kids will survive. They were too young and helpless.

A few minutes when everyone is up at the ceiling, we suddenly felt something… a strong bump over the back part of the house. Later did we know that it was a horrific dump truck!!! My goodness! It destroyed some part of the house and Oh my… caused the shaking that frightened us all. All I hear at this moment is the crying and shouting of everyone. We all felt that the roof gradually flattens. It was so dark inside the ceiling. I swear to all the Angels in heaven, this time I cannot anymore handle my feelings.

PLUS… I do not know where was Papa… where was Mama, and Gary. They are all out of my sight! I do not hear them calling my name. I totally do not know where they are.

In just few minutes, we all have felt that the house is about to be destroyed and eventually, for sure, will be taken by the heavy current/flow of water! All I hear again was the crying of the kids, and the loud ‘Our Father’ prayer of everyone. How could you imagine being in that situation?

Little by little the water reaches the ceiling. Imagine how horrifying the water was, it reaches the ceiling of the second floor of the house. My goodness! We were all trapped inside the ceiling with roof on our heads, and water starting to crawl all over our body… and Hey! We will be drowned! We all will gonna die! What the!!! I never expected to die that early, Oh! Never in my dreams!

By chance, Gary and my other cousins were able to devastate one sheet of the roof. I was so grateful Gary was there. Really a heaven sent! It saves us from drowning inside that torture moment over the ceiling. For the second time, it gives us a little hope… a little chance.

Not long, as expected, the house was totally destroyed by that heavy current of water plus being bumped by so many logs/woods and a super destroyer dumptruck!

Then everyone is up at the roof, we are all seated. I then look for Papa, Mama and Gary. The moment I saw them, I fearfully hold them tight. It was a non-stop crying. Until… the house was starting to be taken by the tremendous flood. Until… we all sink and submerged in the water. Until… I thought that was my LAST moment.

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Honestly, I do not know how to swim. Gary became my savior. A heaven sent to be my protector. I have known that God used Gary in order to save and protect me.

When I was about to get drowned in the flood, like I only had one last second to hold my breath, Gary pulled my hair up. I cannot imagine how painful that was, being sarcastically pulled over through your hair. But then again, I was so grateful he did it.

It was just like a roller coaster ride being taken by flood from our house in Macasandig up to the sea area in Macabalan. And… the ride doesn’t stop there because we were still taken to a very far place, the seas of El Salvador, Misamis Oriental and Camiguin. What a trip, wasn’t it?

I couldn’t tell any longer every hard time, pain, and struggle we had. I will just leave it to your imagination.


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I will take this chance, again, to say my very BIG “THANK YOU” to the following;

1)      To GOD. I know everything happens for a reason. You never give us burdens we cannot carry. Thank You GOD, I’ve survived!
2)      To GARY. For being the explanation why I have survived. For never leaving my side all throughout my happiest and saddest times.
3)      To MY FAMILY. To every one of my relatives who in any way helped us stand again with our feet after that very tough falling.
4)      To MY WORKMATES and everyone from Sharp (Phils.) Corporation nationwide. Financially and emotionally, you are all in help. Especially to SHARP Cagayan de Oro, for the hands on help. For assisting me and my family in the evacuation center, sending us in the hospital, and providing our needs. Grabe kadako nga “SALAMAT”.
5)      To MY FRIENDS, COLLEGE & HIGH SCHOOL CLASSMATES. I couldn’t put anymore into words how thankful I was. Thanks for visiting me, for giving out some time of your schedules just to see me and ask how I was going. Just by seeing your presence on those miserable days of my life is more than anything to me.
6)      To GARY’S FAMILY, FRIENDS, & CLASSMATES. Guys, I wanna let you know how you made Gary feel loved and important.
7)      To THE RESCUERS IN OPOL, DONORS FROM DIFFERENT SECTORS, AND ALL THE VOLUNTEERS. For the heroic deeds you have shown. The community was so much blessed to have you.

You all have helped us carry the heavy burden that we are able to stand again back on our feet and move forward.


 

Bevs

Miyerkules, Nobyembre 7, 2012

GOOD FRIENDS: Kc and Jen


Hello Readers!

I feel like having one blog post that will feature my “Good Friends”. Here I wanted to let know everyone that the past 6 years of my life has never been this good without them.

Meet my dear friends... 

Ms. Kc Fernandez and Ms. Jennifer Ontolan


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I first met KC during my first days in College way back June 2006. We are classmates in one of our minor subjects. Being a timid-type freshman, this girl seems to be the opposite of me. She is so gracious and sociable. She was a friend of everyone in the classroom. To make the story short, we became friends really quick. She then introduced me to her High school friend, Jennifer!





Martes, Oktubre 23, 2012

My First Blog



Hello Readers!


Whoaa! I can’t believe I am writing my very first blog ever. You know this feeling, when I totally do not know what to write about, how to start my sentences, and whatsoever. Haha!

Well, with my first blog, I wanted to share what and who had driven me to sign up and start blogging. It was just last years when I have been religiously reading Ms. Stephanie Sol’s blog in http://thebasicsteph.tumblr.com/ . Her blogs were just so amazing, that in everyday I was like constantly checking out her Facebook page and expecting that she again has posted a link to her new blog. YES! It was because of her blogs that I am keeping updated with her life, like; her fashion style, her nail and hair color, her recent escapades, and even her new TV shows and commercials!!!

So, here I am… trying to follow on her footsteps. 

Special acknowledgement to my former colleagues Ma’am Glenda and Ma’am Jobelle for their inspiring blogs, which I have also been reading for the past days.

I hope you guys would check out my future blogs as I am about to share some happy stories of my love life! :) P.S. Pardon my grammar. Haha!

Bevs